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Firstly, find a site that caters specifically for BBW.  Studies have shown that the notion that all men are attracted to only women who are skinny and thin is just not true.  A significant proportion are attracted to big beautiful women.  So it is better to locate sites that specifically cater for this niche – both for BBWs and men seeking their company.

These sites also remove the fear of dealing with overweight stereotypes, discrimination and prejudice.  At these sites BBWs can strengthen their confidence and dispel the notion that thin women are always more attractive.

There are certain safety measures that should be kept in mind:

1 Make sure that the BBW dating site is legitimate, has privacy protection, easy to search features and updated member profiles.  The site should look up to date and clean, with a healthy number of registered members.  Sites that have free registration with paid options are preferable to sites that are just free.   When a paid option requires monthly fees, credit card details are required and thus some form of identity is established.  This will help screen out undesirables in the first instance.

2 Avoid providing personal information on initial contact.  This includes personal emails and phone numbers.   Reputable BBW sites (any reputable dating site for that matter) will offer instant messaging, internal mail and even VOIP internal phone systems.   These not only make initial contact easier but also adds in promoting the safety of the members of the site.

3  Meet a person for the first time in a public place such as a cafe, restaurant or coffee shop.

For men, there are certain things that men should keep in mind when establishing contact:

1 Start off with a general compliment that may relate to a common interest like music, TV or films.  Avoid passing any remarks that pertain to anything physical – not until you are better acquainted, otherwise she may think that you are only interested in her photo and only things physical.

2 Don’t come across as too cocky, over-confident and too sure of yourself.  Self-deprecating humor works well – this shows that you don’t take yourself too seriously and yet leave your options open for her to later see you as the strong person you really are.  Don’t overdo it.  Don’t come across as being too insecure.  So don’t unburden your home and work problems on her.

3 Have patience.  Give her a chance to get to know you online before you venture offline.  Women tend to move slower in this area than men – and for good reason.  They need to have some trust.  This can take time.

Check out the banner in the right column of this site for access to a reputable BBW site.   This site is part of the Word Dating Partners group, a mainstream online dating site with over five million spam-free profiles, worldwide.

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