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I have been dating a guy for almost 6 months (we’re both 25 years old). Everything is going great with our relationship in every aspect and I am starting to care for him and feel like I am falling in love. But, we have not literally mentioned the words ‘boyfriend and girlfriend’ to each other yet, even though all of our friends say we are and I feel like we are. We met at an online dating site; I discontinued my subscription months ago and he is still on there and recently updated a few items in his profile. A while ago he said he forgot to cancel his subscription and it automatically resigned him up. I can see he is still slightly active on the site. This is now giving me doubts about how serious he is about the relationship we do have.
How do I go about talking with him about where we stand in the relationship without scaring him away? Do I bring up the fact that I saw he updated his profile on the dating site and ask why he’s still on it? Any suggestions are welcomed.

I’ve been talking to this guy online. We only talk about literature ( I like that crap, haha)

we only been talking for a few days now, and for some reason, I can’t stop thinking about him—he has me reading shakespeare’ and that other crap; poe, hathrowne, dickerson, etc.

i’m sure he’s not interested in me
guys usually not into me

I dont know what to do?
He sent me a message first—he said that he like how I used a few words in my profile. And how I seemed fun, but he mostly messaged me because of the words on my profile. We’ve been exchanging emails daily tho

sorry for the bad grammar, its almost 3am

Maybe I’m like that is b/c I have not had sex in four years

Ok this girl and I have known each other for years through thick and thin we’ve been there on varying levels for each other, you could call it a romance apart. We are close in every sense of the word yet she still keeps a dating profile account going, which is very incongruous as
A: we are both set in our plans and hopes with each other
B: we talk all the time and share everything
C: she doesn’t shave her legs
D: she lives at home with her parents and works nearly all week.

so why keep a dating profile. I cover all her dating needs, she’s not a sex fiend nor is she good at being sneaky. why would she do this, some kind of ego boost? She is super duper shy and has been hurt badly the few times she has tried to love so idk what’s up.
Alex I hear you, I do talk to her as often as her busy life allows, and she has been very hurt in past, not many boyfriends in her history but all were duds and bad. One used to beat her, another treated her like crap, and yet another was actually married the whole time and she broke off instantly upon hearing this. She does care for me and understandably its hard for her to feel fondness for any man after what’s happened to her. The hairy leg thing is bizarre but she explains it how she always wears pants year round and who’s to know. I don’t mind as it means she is no dating monster she is pathologically shy but every time we meet its like I was only gone for about a few minutes. She listens to all I have to say and by her own words she feels inferior to me all the while she is the best woman I have ever dated. In my mind she is like my spouse already. I have done countless deeds for her without flinching that most men would run away from.
Even her dating page is really dull and boring and the few pics in there are the same ones from 4 years ago. All her writing points to an uninteresting girl that has zero interest in sex and romance, its more like a "I’m lonely" ad as opposed to a "mmmm heyyyy boys I am sexy and alone" listing

After rewriting this for like the third time i think i may have it right for once haha. My name is Jimmy currently in school for trying to get my degree in business. My goals in life is to be able to travel the world one day, i enjoy hearing about how great a place is whether it the coldest part of the world of the warmest. Photography is something that i enjoy doing, i hope that one day i might be able to help someone out. "A picture is worth a thousand words" i want to be able to show that, but besides that im the type of guy that enjoys making others laugh. music happens to be one of my passion, i play the guitar and the piano and it has help me through out my life. so when it comes down to music i would listen to anything that sounds good.im really just looking for someone to share the good times with cause im really just that amazing haha.

I’m a 32-year-old, heterosexual male who is single:

I am a subscribed/paid membership, totaling to at l e a s t 0.00 per month, to the following Internet ‘dating‘ sites to “ ‘find’/‘look’/‘seek’ for a ‘love’ mate and experience mutual ‘love’ with this person”:
1. Yahoo.com
2. Match.com
3. True.com
4. Eharmony.com
5. Chemistry.com
6. FriendFinder.com
7. Passion.com
8. BigChurch.com
9. MySpace.com

I place/post photo(s) of myself on my personal ad/profile for each of the websites listed above.

After I read the match’s personal ad/profile, I write and send a different email to each ‘match’ for initiating contact with peer-aged match (the woman or women).

However, I constantly experience that the ‘matched’ person(s)— the peer-aged women–; regardless of race/ethnicity, regardless of her photo or none on her personal ad/profile; that the peer-aged Women do selectively eliminate me– they do n o t reply to any of my email(s) I sent– as potentially being her either platonic friend or amorous/romantic partner based upon h e r preference selection of "Her Ideal Person’s" traits, such as:
1) Height,
2) Race/ethnicity
3) ‘Body type’, and
4) Income/Occupation.

A. What is going on with the Online Internet ‘Dating‘/"Personal Ad" craze/fad or ‘thing’– "Woman seeks Man"/"Man
seeks Woman"? ? ?

B. Where are the real Woman; n o t the Woman who are fake/’flakes’ or n o t those that are " teasers of
written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles, photos, and such)” ? ? ?

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Who are the top ten online dating websites outside the USA?

I’m a 33-year-old, heterosexual male who is single, and I have a paid membership, totaling to at l e a s t 0.00 per month, on the following sites just to: ‘seek’ for a ‘love’ mate and experience mutual ‘love’ " but only experience flakeyness from Women :

1. Yahoo.com
2. Match.com
3. True.com
4. Eharmony.com
5. Chemistry.com
6. FriendFinder.com
7. Passion.com
8. BigChurch.com
9. Alt.com

10. MySpace.com
11. PlentyOfFish.com

I place/post photo(s) of myself on my personal ad/profile for each of the websites listed above.

I read the match’s personal ad/profile, I write and send a different email to each ‘match’ for initiating contact with peer-aged match (the woman or women).

However, I constantly experience that the ‘matched’ person(s)— the peer-aged women–; regardless of race/ethnicity, regardless of her photo or none on her personal ad/profile; that the peer-aged Women do selectively eliminate me– they do n o t reply to any of my email(s)

A. What is going on with the Online Internet ‘Dating‘/"Personal Ad" craze/fad or ‘thing’– "Woman seeks Man"/"Man
seeks Woman"? ? ?

B. Where are the real Woman; n o t the Woman who are fake/’flakes’ or n o t those that are " teasers of
written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles, photos, and such)” ? ? ?

C. What is this: “Popularity Contest”, “Flauntiest Teasing”, “Flirtatious but Fickleness/Finickiest” of these
heterosexual peer-aged people; both men and women; with the Internet/Online Dating Website trend or
‘craze’/‘fad’? ? ?

We’ve all heard of trolls on yahoo answers. But in the past most reputable dating sites I’ve seen and used have so many 18-23 year old members who post maybe one or two words, no profile, and tons of people of all ages with no picture and sometimes not even a profile either.

Why do these sites claim to screen people when obviously there’s so many people who misuse it (including yahoo personals, etc…)

for each other and should’nt waste any more of each other’s time" and "if we aren’t talking like old friends, we shouldnl’t continue"? Many guys put these words in their online dating profiles. I find it just weird as first meetings are always akward just as first dates with people you already know and you can’t really judge a person on the first coffee meeting (unless your dates a drunk, smokes, or is rude and offensive). I find it hard to think I would be laughing hysterically with a complete stranger within minutes. I usually have to know a person a little better before I can act silly with them and show my quirky side. I think the same goes for the physical attraction as I don’t think I would be making out with someone I just met, even if I was attracted to them, it’s just creepy. Is this creepy or am I the one that is creepy? lol

I’m a 32-year-old, heterosexual male who is single:

I am a subscribed/paid membership, totaling to at l e a s t 0.00 per month, to the following Internet ‘dating‘ sites to “ ‘find’/‘look’/‘seek’ for a ‘love’ mate and experience mutual ‘love’ with this person”:
1. Yahoo.com
2. Match.com
3. True.com
4. Eharmony.com
5. Chemistry.com
6. FriendFinder.com
7. Passion.com
8. BigChurch.com
9. MySpace.com

I place/post photo(s) of myself on my personal ad/profile for each of the websites listed above.

After I read the match’s personal ad/profile, I write and send a different email to each ‘match’ for initiating contact with peer-aged match (the woman or women).

However, I constantly experience that the ‘matched’ person(s)— the peer-aged women–; regardless of race/ethnicity, regardless of her photo or none on her personal ad/profile; that the peer-aged Women do selectively eliminate me– they do n o t reply to any of my email(s) I sent– as potentially being her either platonic friend or amorous/romantic partner based upon h e r preference selection of "Her Ideal Person’s" traits, such as:
1) Height,
2) Race/ethnicity
3) ‘Body type’, and
4) Income/Occupation.

A. What is going on with the Online Internet ‘Dating‘/"Personal Ad" craze/fad or ‘thing’– "Woman seeks Man"/"Man
seeks Woman"? ? ?

B. Where are the real Woman; n o t the Woman who are fake/’flakes’ or n o t those that are " teasers of
written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles, photos, and such)” ? ? ?

C. What is this: “Popularity Contest”, “Flauntiest Teasing”, “Flirtatious but Fickleness/Finickiest” of these
heterosexual peer-aged people; both men and women; with the Internet/Online Dating Website trend or
‘craze’/‘fad’? ? ?

i have a hard time with the personality or who i want thing.im not saying i dont know who i am or anything.just that sometimes i just dont know what or how to write it. I.E i needed help to fill out job applications before,knew what i could do,just didnt know how to word it.someone helped me and now i have a good job.now talking to someone in person is a lot easier for me.so once a girl/woman is interested enough to talk,e-mail or im, im all set.so should i like give my friends/family a piece of paper and ask them to write down some info?

I’m a 33-year-old, heterosexual male who is single:

I am a subscribed/paid membership, totaling to at l e a s t 0.00 per month, to the following Internet ‘dating‘ sites to “ ‘find’/‘look’/‘seek’ for a ‘love’ mate and experience mutual ‘love’ with this person”:
1. Yahoo.com
2. Match.com
3. True.com
4. Eharmony.com
5. Chemistry.com
6. FriendFinder.com
7. Passion.com
8. BigChurch.com
9. MySpace.com

I place/post photo(s) of myself on my personal ad/profile for each of the websites listed above.

After I read the match’s personal ad/profile, I write and send a different email to each ‘match’ for initiating contact with peer-aged match (the woman or women).

However, I constantly experience that the ‘matched’ person(s)— the peer-aged women–; regardless of race/ethnicity, regardless of her photo or none on her personal ad/profile; that the peer-aged Women do selectively eliminate me– they do n o t reply to any of my email(s) I sent– as potentially being her either platonic friend or amorous/romantic partner based upon h e r preference selection of "Her Ideal Person’s" traits, such as:
1) Height,
2) Race/ethnicity
3) ‘Body type’, and
4) Income/Occupation.

A. What is going on with the Online Internet ‘Dating‘/"Personal Ad" craze/fad or ‘thing’– "Woman seeks Man"/"Man
seeks Woman"? ? ?

B. Where are the real Woman; n o t the Woman who are fake/’flakes’ or n o t those that are " teasers of
written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles, photos, and such)” ? ? ?

C. What is this: “Popularity Contest”, “Flauntiest Teasing”, “Flirtatious but Fickleness/Finickiest” of these
heterosexual peer-aged people; both men and women; with the Internet/Online Dating Website trend or
‘craze’/‘fad’? ? ?

teasers of
written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles, photos, and such)” ? ? ?

I’m a 33-year-old, straight(heterosexual) male who is single, without children; and attempting/trying to: “ ‘find’/‘look’/‘seek’. . . attract a ‘mate’; a peer-aged woman; for mutual love or the experience of casual ‘dating’ ”.

I’m a member on the following Internet ‘chat’/blogs Personalized Web-page websites such as:
*. MySpace.com
*. FaceBook.com
*. YouTube.com
*. LifeKnot.com

I’m also a member on the following f r e e Internet ‘dating’ websites:
*. PlentyOfFish.com
*. Mingle2.com
*. DateHookUp.com
*. CraigsList.org

Lastly, I’m a member(subscribed/paid); with membership totaling at l e a s t 0.00 monthly; on the following Internet ‘date’-matching websites:

“Speed ‘Dating’ ” websites:
1. HurryDate.com
2. 8MinuteDate.com
3. PreDating.com

“Matching/ ‘Date’ websites:
1. eHarmony.com
2. Match.com
3. Yahoo.com
4. True.com
5. Chemistry.com
6. FriendFinder.com
7. BigChurch.com
8. Passion.com
9. Fling.com
10. CollegeDateLink.com
11. Cupid.com
12. LoveAccess.com
13. AdultFriendFinder.com

I have placed/posted friendly photo(s) of myself in my personal ad/profile, which is completely filled-out, on each of the websites mentioned above. After reading each match’s personal ad/profile, I write and send a different email to each peer-aged match(the woman or women) to initiate contact with her.

However, I constantly experience that the ‘matched’ person(s)– the peer-aged woman/women; regardless of race/ethnicity, regardless of her photo(s) or the lacking a photo of herself on her personal ad/profile; do selectively eliminate me; for example: they do n o t reply to any of my email(s) I sent. As a result, any and all these women selectively eliminate me as potentially being either her platonic friend or her amorous/romantic partner; based upon h e r preference selection of "Her Ideal Person’s" traits section in h e r personal ad/profile as follows:

1) Height [ “Her ‘Partner’ m u s t” be at least 6feet 6inches tall],

2) Race/Ethnicity [skin-complexion/skin-tone],

3) ‘Body type’ [ “Her ‘Partner’ m u s t ” be either: muscular, toned, athletic, or slim]; and

4) Income/Occupation [ “Her ‘Partner’ m u s t ” earn/make an income of at least ,000 annually]

Q u e s t i o n s:

A. What is this with the Internet/Online ‘Dating’-match website ‘trend’ or ‘craze’/‘fad’: a “Popularity Contest”. . ., the “Flauntiest Tease” . . .; or, a “Flirtiest b u t Fickleness/Finickiest” c o n t e s t from both men and especially women? ? ?

B. Where are the r e a l Women; n o t the Woman who are fake/’flakes’; n o t those who are: teasers of written/worded Personal Ads/Profiles with eye-catching-candy photos, and etcetera? ? ?

C. What’s going on with people(whether male or female) about the: "Woman seeks Man" and/or "Man seeks Woman" section(s); of the Internet ‘Dating‘/Matching, the Internet Personal Ads/Profiles craze/fad ‘thing’? ? ?

I saw this flashing icon with the flashing word available next to a my space profile. Does this mean the person belongs to an on line dating service?

I’ve had great successes with a few online dating sites and am trying a new one with surprising lack of success. Other than pictures (I have no problem in that department) what really grabs your attention…..is there a key phrase or sequence of words that catches you??
Maybe I asked the wrong question…what I should have asked is: In your past online dating experiences, taking two equally matched people, what makes one stand out more than another? Is it how they write?…the words they use?

Believe it or not, there are genuine people online trying to meet the same. If the person you correspond with turns out not to be who they claim, it’s going to crumble regardless…

If any body out there (how Floydian)has been deceived, I appologize for the rest of us who have honorable intentions.

I have noticed some users profiles in Facebook have customized relationship status that is not included in the official Facebook "relationship status" & "looking for" options of looking for friendships, dating, networking & a relationship.

How can Facebook users change the limited generic options offered by facebook profiles to our own customized word descriptions for ‘interested in’ such as "random play", business partners, whatever we choose, etc.?

Hi. I am just needing opinions right now. I am a young woman who is desperately ready to start dating. I’ve never dated before, and I have been having trouble getting started. I don’t get out much because I don’t have reliable transportation, nor do I have many friends at all. I have contemplated online dating, but I REALLY want to meet guys the old-fashioned way.

This past week I have made profiles on different sites just to take a peek and see what kind of guys hang out on those sites. And most of them either can’t spell words properly or are just looking for sex. I don’t know, none of them really appeal to me.

As I stated before, I really want to meet people the old fashioned way and not through the computer, but I just don’t know how to get started. I’m not a club person, and nothing else has been working because I don’t have friends to go out with, and half the time I have no way of getting around.

Are there any tips? Or should I just wait things out?

I appreciate well thought out answers that are mature and polite. Thanks.

What’s your input on how the whole dating system works?

You meet boy/girl, become friendly and ask out on a "date"…things go well and you continuously go on dates…after so many dates somebody calls official bf/gf? And you move along from there…is the general gist?

..bc I’ve been imagining i meet boy…we become friends, we hangout, become really close and flirt alot, feelings get revealed, we become official bf/gf, and then we "date" and move along from there…

I’m so confused since my last question i asked on my profile….so, generally can hanging out and dating be words used interchangeably? bc i thought my "system" made sense but apparently all the guys that responded said it’s a horrible system…

Someone layout the "outline of dating" for me please, lol

There’s this guy that’s my #1 match supposedly on this dating website. His profile is blank with 2 pictures except for "My name is john doe. add me on facebook because I don’t get on here that much" but he’s been signed up since November 2009 and signs in alot.

What is the point of making a blank dating profile but signing in all the time?

I’ m using asiangf asian dating services, no problem so far, it’s just that the photo’s of the filipina woman I’m corresponding with look to be professionally done. In other words…they look like a photographer took them or they were taken out of a magazine of some sort…that’s cool but how to have a proof that’s really her? She keep saying that it’s her and the photos where taking by professional photographer in Manila…. etc Should I ask her to send me one or two photo’s that were taken either with friends, family, or in a natural setting (at school, the park, out on the town, your house, bedroom, etc.) What else should I ask to be sure it’s her on those photos?